Worthless Again

Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't a wife and kids supposed to be a priority in a husband's life? When did I become only an obligation. C's visit was awful. When he was with us, he would text his friends. When he was with them, we didn't exist. He had this huge elaborate plan for Saturday night and he would post on Facebook repeatedly about it. Saturday was his night with friends. He didn't bother making plans for our days together. He didn't sound excited talking about them either. We aren't a priority. We are something he has to get through until he can be with the people he wants to be with. Once more I feel worthless and alone.